I spent too many years in retail to ever want to spend the Friday after Thanksgiving shopping. All that traffic and pushing and waiting in line is great for retailers but not for me. I actually went to W@lmart one Black Friday about 12 years ago. I figured I'd zip in at 5 am, pick up the vacuum and TV and be back at home before my husband woke up. This was before the days of being open on Thanksgiving day and even at 5 am, the store was packed. Packed with mean, pushy, cart ramming shoppers. I picked up the two things I came for as fast as I could (which wasn't all that fast) and vowed never to do that again. Never. Ever. These days my Black Fridays are more relaxing and fun. If you're looking for something to do this year besides hitting the mall, consider one of these activities: Put up your Christmas Tree. This can be a fun family event and if you have relatives in town you even get some extra help! Take pictures, too, for a fun scrapbook page. Writ